Tradition vs. Progress: When Holding On Prevents Moving Forward
Tradition provides a sense of stability, identity, and
connection to the past, but when it is followed without question, it can become
a barrier to growth and progress. The story of Doing Things Without Knowing
Why reveals how generations continued a habit without knowing its original
purpose, highlighting how unquestioned traditions can outlive their necessity.
Similarly, Living in Color explores a society where
conformity and stability suppress individuality, showing how resisting change
can stifle potential. While tradition offers comfort, progress demands
adaptability and courage.
When holding on to the past prevents us from embracing the
future, we must ask: Are we preserving wisdom, or are we simply afraid to
evolve?
Story topics: Tradition, Change, Growth,
Individuality, Conformity, Adaptation, Perspective, Transformation, Society,
History
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1. Doing
Things Without Knowing Why: The Danger of Blind Tradition
A little girl noticed that every time her mother cooked a
roast she chopped a piece off the end of the roast before putting it in the
oven. Intrigued, she asked her mother why she did this.
“Well to be honest, I do it because that’s the way my mother
always does it” came the reply. “I’m sure she must have some good reason for
it.”
At the next family gathering, the child decided to satisfy
her curiosity. “Grandma, why do you always chop the end off the roast before
cooking it?”
“Well to be honest, I do it because that’s the way my mother
always does it” came the reply. “I’m sure she must have some good reason for
it.”
A week or so later the little girl was visiting her 90 year
old great grandmother. She explained that mummy and grandma always chop the end
off the roast before cooking it, but couldn’t remember why. Did she know?
“Struth!” said Great-grandma. “Imagine the two of them doing
that! Why, I only cut the piece off because my pan was too small!”
2.
Living in Color: How Change Transforms
Society and Identity
Do you ever wish we could get back to the wholesomeness and
stability of the past, to a world where things are simpler and easier?
That’s just the issue explored in the superb 1998 film Pleasantville.
The central characters of the movie are teenage twins David and Jennifer, each
struggling their own way with the pressures of modern life and a family that
has been through divorce.
Jennifer becomes the ultimate party girl, sleeping around
and acting on her every whimsy. David becomes depressed and retreats from the
world into his room, where he spends as much time as he can watching his
favourite TV show, an old 1950’s black and white sitcom, Pleasantville. Pleasantville
seems to offer everything David could want – simplicity, intact families,
stability, clear community values.
Then one day something weird happens. David and Jennifer are
fighting over the remote control for the TV and break it. Mysteriously a TV
repairman show up at that time and gives them an unusual looking replacement
remote.
No sooner have they hit the button than they are both
transported back in time into Pleasantville, the world of David’s favourite
sitcom. They find themselves trapped in this world where everything is neat,
simple and occurs in black and white.
David and Jennifer are part of a traditional family, where
mum stays home to do the cooking and cleaning and their clean-cut Dad heads off
to work, returning each evening with “Honey, I’m home.”
David realised that they have become part of the episodes he
knows word by word from TV and decides to play along. There is something
appealing about this simple world. Jennifer is horrified. There’s no way she’ll
be going along with the rules.
David tells her she’ll destroy these people’s way of life,
but she doesn’t care.
And the funny thing is that she does destroy their way of
life, but in many ways she changes it for the better.
You see, the reason everything is so pleasant in
Pleasantville is that nobody asserts their individuality. Everybody conforms to
the desires of the mainstream.
Jennifer’s Pleasantville mum represses her sexuality, the
Pleasantville store owner represses his dreams of becoming an artist, the high
school kids go through the motions of winning every basketball game but never
know how to cope with failure.
Inspired by Jennifer’s chaotic ways people in Pleasantville
start discovering their individuality. Jennifer’s mum explores her sexuality
and then one day doesn’t have dinner ready and waiting for her husband when he
walks in the door. The local storeowner starts painting.
The high school kids start breaking out of their rigid
conformity and become addicted to sexual pleasure, at least initially. And as
all this happens those who begin to assert their individuality turn into
colour.
The reaction from the powerbrokers is swift. Initially
confused by all these changes they soon become convinced society will fall
apart. They organise meetings, enact laws against “coloureds”, apply guilt
trips to those who have changed.
A darker, uglier undercurrent of abuse and violence emerges
as some who resent the changes retaliate. But nothing can stop the change.
The movie raises a whole lot of issues. By the end we’ve
discovered that the new full colour version of the world is more chaotic and
dangerous than the black and white version. Readjusting to new roles,
discovering morality and living with change is difficult.
The men have lost the power and convenience of a world
oriented around their needs. Yet people are living in colour. They seem happier
and more fulfilled.
The movie raises a number of confronting challenges about
change.
- The
world of today is more complex, chaotic and dangerous than the world of
the past, but it is also one where people are liberated rather than
repressed – chaotic but colourful versus ordered but black and white.
- When
we respect people’s individuality (ie their dreams and desires) we run the
risk that they will pursue options and agendas with which we are
uncomfortable.
- A
black and white world is one which centres around the dreams and hopes of
one group by repressing the dreams and hopes of others. In the town of Pleasantville,
the last to change are the adult men. After all, they are the ones who
hold power in this world, with wives and children fitting in with their
needs.
- Change
can produce an ugly backlash. Feeling that they possess the moral high
ground people can be harsh in judgement, vindictive in spirit, and assume
they have the right to enforce their views on others.